Never did I think I’d see the day that my oldest son would decide to move into his biological fathers house just so he can live with his girlfriend. Talk about thinking with the wrong head. So what makes this so hard? His dad and his ex both hate my guts. I’m the mentally unstable crazy controlling bitch. Cool story bro, except you love how amazing your son turned out. Gonna try and take bragging rights on that one, but you haven’t so much as hugged him in years!!!!
I cannot even put into words how incredibly painful this is. To sit back and watch when your son doesn’t even consider the wisdom you have over such a poor choice. Finding out he never even so much as shared our concerns with his girlfriend who he’s only known for 6 months. She was forced out of her home on her 18th birthday due to them dating. Her entire world was shattered, but he thinks she’ll be just fine living with your dad – who you haven’t spent the night with in almost a decade! You think you and your dad can work on mending the broken relationship, while simultaneously growing a healthy one with your girlfriend. And all the drama he is going through with his other kids and his ex. Just yikes, son.
And to my former friend who decided to have multiple kids with this grade A father but who can now only have supervised visits with your kids….I’m the one that made your life a living hell? Got it.
What did I do to deserve not one but two, former friends have kids with my exes after me? I mean damn. Bro’s got a code, don’t females? I’m so over this. Ruined friendships that were 20-30 years old, gone. Should have left it at “We don’t really have anything in common”. Making your life hell is the last thing I did. I cannot believe you thought that is an appropriate thing to tell my son. Take responsibility for your own actions. You chose that life with him for a decade, not me!
Outnumbered Six to One 